The phrase ‘follow your dreams’ is often used, but I believe it’s often misinterpreted. It’s rarely about pursuing the dreams others have envisioned for you. True dream-following is about aligning your actions with your heart’s desires and pursuing what truly feels right for you.
People who offer this advice often don’t grasp its essence. It’s about internal guidance, not external expectations. Disappointment arises when someone’s genuine pursuit of their dreams clashes with others’ pre-conceived notions of success.
The core message should be: pursue your passions, embrace your authentic self, and prioritize your happiness above all else. Understandably, others will offer opinions and feedback, some of which may be unsolicited.
If you encourage someone to ‘follow their dreams,’ truly support their unique path. Don’t impose your own aspirations onto them. Judging someone as a ‘failure’ based on your own standards is misguided. Their journey is their own, and their happiness is the ultimate measure of success.
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